Intake and Assessment
The intake parenting coordination session is typically the first meeting between the parenting coordinator and the parents involved in the process. Its purpose is to gather important information, establish rapport, and set the foundation for the parenting coordination process.
Here's an overview of what generally happens in an intake parenting coordination session:
Introduction and Explanation: The parenting coordinator introduces themselves, explains their role, and provides an overview of the parenting coordination process. They may also discuss the goals, benefits, and limits of parenting coordination to ensure the parents have a clear understanding of what to expect.
Information Gathering: The parenting coordinator will ask the parents to provide relevant information about their family dynamics, parenting history, and the specific issues they are facing. This may include details about the children's schedules, education, healthcare, and any existing court orders or agreements.
Assessing Concerns and Goals: The parenting coordinator will inquire about the parents' concerns, conflicts, and desired outcomes. They will encourage open and honest communication, allowing each parent to express their perspectives and concerns regarding co-parenting matters.
Exploring History and Patterns: The parenting coordinator may delve into the history of the conflicts and disputes between the parents. They may ask about past attempts at resolving issues, previous court involvement, or any relevant information that can help them understand the dynamics between the parents.
Assessing Parenting Dynamics: The parenting coordinator may inquire about the parenting styles, strengths, and challenges of each parent. They may also explore any specific needs or issues related to the children, such as special needs or concerns about their well-being.
Addressing Safety and High-Conflict Situations: If there are any safety concerns or high-conflict dynamics, the parenting coordinator will assess and discuss these issues with the parents. They may gather information regarding any history of domestic violence, substance abuse, or other factors that may impact the children's safety and well-being.
Establishing Guidelines and Expectations: The parenting coordinator will explain the guidelines, rules, and expectations for the parenting coordination process. This may include topics such as confidentiality, communication protocols, session frequency, and the potential involvement of other professionals or support services.
Setting Future Sessions: The parenting coordinator and the parents will determine the frequency and scheduling of future sessions based on the specific needs of the family. This may involve setting regular meeting dates and discussing how the sessions will be conducted (in-person, via video conferencing, etc.).
The intake parenting coordination session serves as an opportunity for the parenting coordinator to gather essential information, assess the parents' needs, and establish a working relationship with the parents. It lays the groundwork for the subsequent sessions and sets the stage for constructive and effective parenting coordination.